It wouldn’t
be surprising that at some point you’ve must have made some silly mistake in
bed. You might have smoothed over some of that misstep with your quick wit and
sly smile, or you crashed and burned without expecting a return call from her the
next day.
For the many who are yet to figure out a way to recover from such
blunders, there is help. Read on and practice this simple ways.
PLU CLUMSINESS
You don’t have to be a Casanova and
completely at ease in order to be a good lover. But few mishaps like a few
elbows in head, maybe pinning her hair to the bed, and knocking foreheads or
teeth can indeed put your more pleasurable moves on hold. But just like a
singer on stage or an actor in a play, when you stumble and make a slip, you
have to keep on going without hesitation and delay. Push through little
mistakes. If you don’t dwell on the negative, she won’t either. If you fuss
about the accidental bump, she will defiantly be put off. Keep the mood
unbroken and your bruises and scrapes the proud war wounds of incredibly hot
sex.
BODILY FUNCTIONS
Sometimes, after a meal or some
drinks! Some excess air starts building up with pressure and it has two options:
going up or down. Burping near her or in her mouth while kissing should be
avoided, and so is letting go of some noisome stomach pressure down below.
Still, when it’s an accident, all you can do is laugh about it. Women still appreciate
your joking nature. Funny noises during sex are common. When you think about
it, most sounds we make are grotesque, but everyone makes them, so they’re
forgivable. So, crack a joke and go back to given her a great time.
INAPPROPRIATE COMMENTS
You can tell that you made a mistake
when after you tell her something you think is particularly sexy she just
stares at you without making a comment. When she doesn’t know how to respond to
your dirty jokes or when she takes offense to what you say, do not respond
aggressively. Don’t get upset. Continue to soothe and state that you were just
talking dirty for fun. However, it is best to switch your use of profanity to
description of how she’s making you feel, what she feels like to you, etc. you
can still use imagery artistically to create that erotic environment where she
feels a little wild and free to talk back.
TAKING TOO LONG
Some men, like some women, take a
little long to reach orgasm. Women may feel numb and even sore after a while of
continual pounding, and the men may feel like a robot. A great solution would
be to discontinue the action under acceptable guise such as a bathroom break.
When you return, it will be easier for both parties to move on from there. If
she feels guilty about you not getting yours, let her know she can get you back
at any opportunity.
DON’T DWELL ON MISTAKES
Mistakes and blunders will be part
of anyone’s sexual life. What matter is how you recover and move on? You can
save any night from ending prematurely by using your wit and charms. Don’t
dwell on mistakes and keep the laughter going. Transition smoothly between
blunder and bliss and she wouldn’t remember anything but the explosive and
utterly addicting end.
REVEALING A FETISH
Revealing too much too soon and
you’re in trouble. A second date is not the time to break out the toys, ropes
and videos. Be sure of your safe reception. Revealing personal details too soon
can ruin the potential of a developing relationship. Treat fetish like a
relationship topic. This kind of discovery does not occur until much later
within the confines of a stable relationship.
She may ask,
but unless you are certain she knows enough about you and about herself to
support this kind of knowledge, you are risking to be ridiculed and meeting the
end of a possible sexual experimental connection. If you have to tell her about
your secret stash of homemade porn, break it to her gradually and assure her
you wouldn’t progress to that stage until she is ready and feels secured, if at
all. The object is to make her feel respected and safe knowing you will
understand her wishes to either experience your fetish with you or pass on it.
CROSSING HER
If you cross a line, such as trying
anal without asking and waiting for her consent, be prepared for her refusal
and maybe her hasty exit. Trust is the biggest issue. She is vulnerable during
sex and trusts you to value her boundaries. If you find that you have made some
blatant transgression, don’t make a big deal out of it or move your hand or
position to a completely new spot. Just stop the offending action in a smooth
transition to another more pleasurable activity for her.
FINISHING TOO SOON
If it’s been a while, don’t let her
know. She will know soon enough when you secretly make her “one-minute man”
list. Though it would have been prefect sex to make her experience shattering
multiple orgasms that have her screaming in pleasure, it may have felt too damn good for you to
hold back. Coming quickly isn’t something you want to do all the time, but when
you do, don’t apologize. Instead, play on her vanity as an exceptionally sexy
woman, one that made lose control. Say something like, “Wow, you are too hot, I
just couldn’t hold it in any longer.” This way, she will take your premature
ejaculation as a compliment whereas, if you apologize, she will see it as a
flaw. To make up for your quickie
performance, give her the best oral of her life until you regain your upright
stature.
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