The Unreturned Love - Valentine Special

Culled from the book “He Cheated on Me” by Harry Agbenu

This is because a she. She is frustrated because her love wasn’t returned. The much she did for him can form a volume. The uncommon pains she took for him, heaven wrote with a golden pen. Never loved any like that. She gave her soul and risked her eternity.

His smile was her priority. Time ans money she invested. Understanding and tolerance, she displayed.

But he kept stumbling, and she kept believing. Yes believing that he will be better some day. Her man was her baby!

Voices question her love. Faces mocked her compassion. Fingers pointed accusing. And heart marveled at her unflinching strength of her passion for her man.

Loving some men could be very tough business. They could stretch you until you are stressed.

But this lady wouldn’t quit. The passion isn’t normal. It doesn’t happen every other day. It is symbolic love.

She need not give you details. It will choke you then shock you. Sit with her for a while and you will be tempted to sue ‘LOVE’ for making her so miserable.

Giving so much and getting so little or nothing in return is her frustration.

But her love is deep. Very deep. Some love experiences are neither in movies or books. You can’t find it there

Some love stories should be crystallized and others, immortalizes.

Loving wasn’t her problem, the recipient is. Loving the ‘wrong man’ is the most strategic mistake any woman can make. Unreturned love embitters the lover.

That was her problem. Is that yours? Has love been so unfair to you? Are you bleeding from unretured love? If yes take heart.

Your love is uncommon but such men? Common. But that doesn’t make you common. No you are not! His unfair treatment doesn’t depreciated your true value. I give you a clue.

That is God’s kind love. Can’t you see that God uncommon love receives common treatment from humanity.

But does that make God common? A large N , and a massive O. NO!

God shares in your pain of unreturned love. Let it sink deep into your spirit. Take solace in this.

 At least you have a companion. He knows the depths of your wound and understands the content of your anger. The love you can’t find in the’Man-Him’ you can find it in ‘God’. I know some ladies don’t fit into this picture.

Maybe you are ‘lucky’,  your man returns your love. You are happy and he is delighted. Having fun and feeling great. To you I say “congratulations” and “ cheers”!

But there are others whose love lives doesn’t make sense anymore. For such I write: You are the jewel he never saw. The treasures he didn’t use. The gift he never loved.

The queen he never adored. Heaven gave him a symbol; he abused it, life gave him a sign; he ignored it. Love sang a song he didn’t sing. Oh miserable him. The you he never loved was his greatest mistake! Take heart. You still have God by your side.