What Men want in
a Relationship? Is it the same thing for the women they want to have in their lives?. Contrary to what many women think, most
guys aren't looking for a supermodel or beauty queens. They're just looking for
their perfect match, a woman who's down-to-earth, sweet and sensitive to his
needs.
If you want to win the right man's heart, you need to know what it is that makes a man go from
just feeling casual about dating you to wanting and needing you on a deeper level. I'm going to take you inside
a man's mind, so you understand what it takes to trigger this kind of
connection. And I'm talking about a real man – one who is mature and grounded
on a physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual level.
So here are some unique
qualities a man want in the woman he is romantically involved with:
- Attraction: Men aren't as scared of commitment
and relationships as they are scared of being in a relationship with a woman where there is
no passion and attraction. A common way women accidentally kill the
attraction in men might be feeling is by either trying too hard to get him
to like you, or by acting like the relationship is too serious too soon.
Relax and let things happen naturally. Make sure you do and say things
that interject fun and humor into your relationship from the very start.
There's nothing more appealing to a man than a great woman who knows how
to relax and have fun. You can do this through playful teasing, flirting,
humor, and being unpredictable (in a good way).
- Approval and Praises: Men love to be appreciated and complimented
all the time. They love that more than women, although they don’t show it.
He wants you to notice and compliment him on his sense of clothing, his
looks, his choose of hobbies and even more in the bedroom. They want their
women to make them feel that they are better than any other guy. Showering compliment
on your guy will defiantly boost his egos.
- Good Attitude: A man needs a woman with good
attitude and respect for his family and friends, your guy needs to know
that you will be able to conduct yourself well when you are around his
family or friends. A woman’s attitude will just determine how the guy will
see you and what kind of relationship the guy will probably want have with
her.
- Emotional Matured: If a man feels attracted to a woman,
eventually there's going to be a situation that comes up where you and a
man will see something differently and misunderstand each other. How will
you respond to this and share your feelings? A woman who has the maturity
to not blame or criticize a man for what she's feeling, but to share her
feelings in an honest and authentic way that helps a man better understand
her will be attractive to a man. How a woman handles her emotions is one
of the most important things men look for when deciding whether or not to
get serious with a woman. If she lets her emotions get out of control,
this is a big red flag to him. On the other hand, if she can present her
feelings to him in a calm, non-dramatic manner, she will win his respect
and make him feel like she's the kind of woman who will be a real partner
to him. He'll see that she can handle things with a cool head, rather than becoming a damsel in distress
he has to rescue.
- Support: We all once in a while want someone
to lean on and talk to, someone that understands US in a deeper level. Even
the strongest of men want a soft place to fall. He wants to know that
you'll support him and stand by him in his life choices, whether it's
changing careers or moving to a new city. Show your support in small
gestures with a quick "I love you" text when he heads off for
his morning commute and listen to him after a hard day's work. Be
supportive — but not suffocate him.
- Independence: Lots of women mistakenly believe
that men are looking for a "weaker" woman who will make them
feel like they are smarter and more powerful. Nothing could be farther
from the truth. Real men want a woman who inspires them because she has
great things going on her own life. They want a woman who has her own
purpose other than being in a relationship. A great guy isn’t intimidated
by independence and success. What matters to a man is that a woman still
has space in her life for a great relationship and is grounded and present
when she’s with him. The best way to communicate this to a man is to stay
busy in your own life and not suddenly make him your world. Don't drop
your own interests, responsibilities, and friends just to be with him. And
then, when you are with him, really BE with him – have fun and give your
attention to him and what you're doing together.
- Respect: Men want to feel respected by their partner.
They want to know that either in private or public you trust, believe and
admire them. If a man’s partner doesn’t respect his path or mission in
life, then he will find it very difficult to feel anything other than an
anxious need to distance him from her.
- Space: Suffocating a man is the fastest way
of ending a relationship. He needs breathing room in a relationship. He wants
time for his hobbies and to just hangout with his friends. Men love it
when they are being left alone to their thoughts or solve problems. So leave
him to his own devices. A man will be that much happier for you to receive
him when he returns, knowing that you trust both him and the strength of
your bond enough to let him have his space.
- Sex: Men and women both connect
through sex and communication, but generally, women connect better through
communication and men connect better through sex. Does this mean that men
need to have sex with their intimate partners every day in order to feel
connected? Not necessarily. Often, a man will initiate sex just to make
sure that you are still sexually available to him. So, if he reaches
across the bed for you, even showing the willingness to embrace him, to
kiss him deeply, and to engage him could be enough to make him feel loved.
10.
Emotional Intimacy:
From a very young age, men are taught to avoid appearing weak at all costs.
Perceived “weakness” includes things like complaining, divulging fears or concerns,
and expressing self-doubt or worry. A man’s partner is his safe space to fall.
He can expose the cracks in his amour and allow his partner to help him heal .Just
as women need to slowly open up sexually within a relationship; men open up
over time emotionally. He needs to make sure that when he first cries in front
of you, you won’t be repelled or handle it poorly. If you push him away or are
unable to be nurturing when he needs it the most, he will no longer trust you
with his emotions. He will remove himself somewhat from the relationship .In
this instance, both
partners lose- he goes on silently suffering and believing that he is flawed in
his imperfection, and she is held at arm’s length emotionally.
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