This subject seem like a taboo to a lot of young ladies. But why
should it be? I had a crush on a guy once when I was in higher institution. He was
a very intelligent and cheerful guy, which was what drew me to him. I was scared
going up to, what if he had a girlfriend or he rejected me? But I got up the
courage and walked up to him..
In African culture it’s unthinkable for a girl to ask a guy out
for fear of being seen as cheap or reckless.